I have chosen to write on a subject that has been on my mind a lot lately, love and sex.
I have known many people as I have grown and lived my life and love and sex is one subject that often comes up. When it comes to love and sex, most people can tell the difference between the two. I have been in love and I have had sex but I know the difference between the two. Age comes into play when it comes to this subject. Some younger people think if I give you my body you love me. That is not the case, most will just use you and toss you aside. With age comes the understanding that sex does not equal love. Most younger people come from homes where love is not shown or given and will give themselves to anyone in hopes that he or she will love them. It is sad to see but it does happen more each day. My tip is love yourself first. No one will love you if you don’t love yourself first.
When it comes to love which is a very beautiful gift two people can give to each other. Love is what many people long for but so few will ever find. True love, real love makes you feel so happy that every moment with the person you love is the only thing that matters. The rest of the world falls away and all that is important is the love that you two share.
Sex is an important part of life but knowing the difference is important. When you meet a man or women and sparks fly and you head off to the bedroom for a moment of hot sex. You must keep in mind that the person you are having sex with may only want sex and that is all. I have had my nights of hot sex with men and kept it only as a sexual encounter and did not think of them as more that just sex. There are those who have problems understanding that not everyone that we have sex with want love or even to really know you. They see you as a momentary object to get ones rocks off. If I was to fall in love with everyone I slept with well I would never know what real love is like.
I person you have sex with one night may not be the same person when you wake up the next day. They will tell you anything that they want just to get you into bed and when they are done with you they are done and will move onto the next guy or girl. Now if you go into sex hoping for love then I hate to say it you are playing the fool.
No one will respect the the town tramp. They will not date you or even take the time to get to know you. It is never good to be known as the town tramp. Yes you will have tons of sex but the chances of finding real love is very low. I love sex but my goodness I would put in my favorite DVD and take care of myself then be someones one night stand.
Get to know someone first, take things slow. Have a few dates and see where things go. Take time before you jump into bed. Now if you are just horny and want to get your rocks off fine. Just don’t complain if the person you had sex with won’t call you back or when you see them at the club pretend not to know you.
Sex though it feels amazing is not love. Sex with someone who loves you is ten times more amazing than a one night of sex. When you are making love to someone it is like your souls and body become one.
If you are going to have sex always play safe. If you don’t want to spend time at the free clinic getting tested so often that the people know you by name is not a good thing. I again love having sex but I play safe. I will not risk my life on getting my rocks off.
Lastly Sex is not love, I have said it over and over. Put it into your head that sex is not love.